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To cook from scratch or not to cook from scratch - that is the question

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handlemecarefully · 15/11/2005 09:01

I cook from scratch 90% of the time - largely because I want my children to eat well and don't want to rely on processed food. I vary the menu quite substantially too using recipe books extensively.

But I wonder why I frigging bother! Dd is 3.4 and DS 19 months. They eat okay - i.e. sufficient range of vegetables, fruit, fibre and protein but from a very limited pick list. Pasta is rejected, my chicken casserole with dumplings from last week was spurned, so was boeuf bourginone (sp?) etc - sometimes even cottage pie gets the cold shoulder. It's really demoralising.

What would you do - just offer them the limited menu options that they will eat repeatedly, which are:

*fishfingers, jacket wedges and french beans
*home made chicken nuggets, home made over chips and broccoli
*home made pizza, new potatoes, carrots and peas
*mixed vegetable frittata and baked beans
*fish pie + veggies
*roast with all the trimmings

  • and that is it? so they would get 6 different options repeated cyclically every week. Should I just throw in the towel and do this? - it would make my life easier..however equally I am worried that they will get bored with these and stop eating them too if they are endlessly repeated.

Oh, what to do!

(I don't enjoy cooking from scratch btw, I am prepared to do it and do infact do it, but it's completely disheartening when it is not appreciated and fed to our chickens)

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Enid · 15/11/2005 13:03

shall I come to salis next wed?

I'll have dd2 though

oliveoil · 15/11/2005 13:06

Mcr, and working. Tsk.

'Dh, darling, am off tomorrow to Salisbury to meet Cod, HMC and Enid, see you later'.

cod · 15/11/2005 13:06

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Enid · 15/11/2005 13:18

k

wed is day off though

Enid · 15/11/2005 13:19

agree would be good to see ds3

dd2 will love him she loves all boys (and playmobil)

cod · 15/11/2005 13:21

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cod · 15/11/2005 13:21

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oliveoil · 15/11/2005 13:21

is that near Mcr, coirt?

Enid · 15/11/2005 13:22

k lets do it soonish

is their a gap in salis

cod · 15/11/2005 13:23

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Enid · 15/11/2005 13:25

oooh ooh jl food and home

right we are on

cod · 15/11/2005 13:26

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Enid · 15/11/2005 13:26

yes I need her back to give me more good advice re pg

motheroftwoboys · 17/11/2005 13:37

My DS2 - 13 eats only a handful of things - and I mean about 4 things only. I get so p.... off when people assume it is because we have a limited diet or haven't tried him with other things etc. We haven't, we have, it doesn't work. Other son 15 eats with us and eats pretty much anything - discarding just the odd vege, wasn't keen on griddled courgettes last night. I used to stress so much about it - doctors, health visitors etc etc but was told so often to back off, he was and is very fit and healthy. He is a bit more than picky though as he actually retches if he tries to eat anything new. One fact I picked up somewhere, children like him, have a very, very developed palate and sense of small which is very true in his case. He can taste that milk is going off, for instance, way before anyone else and can always smell smells that no-one else can. Weird! Maybe he will be a "nose" in adult life!! Or a wine taster! I always thought that peer pressure at senior school would do the trick, but no! Still waiting.

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