Here are some for starters...
This Jamie Oliver one is seriously delicious. The only thing I don't do is put the cinnamon stick in it as I think it's even nicer without. Put in oven. Leave it. I let it cook for a good 4½ - 5 hours and it tastes even better the next day. Versatile too - great with mash, rice, spaghetti, tagliatelli
I follow Delia's Boeuf Bourguignon recipe, but I will use beef cheek or shin (as I mentioned above) and cook for 3½ hours. Follow the recipe for the rest of it though.
To be honest, once you've mastered the cut of meat that YOU like any blend of these stews and your own throw it in the pot ones will be good. So long as you've got your onion/celery/carrot mirepoix base with your chosen cut of meat then flavours to suit your palate will give you a good stew.
With regard to wine - only put it in if you would happily drink it!
And as I said earlier, if you can give some meat/fish suggestions then I have got some super 'lunch party' dishes I can put up for you.
But anyway, I hope the above two are a help to you.