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Noisy eaters..

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LelloLorry · 24/10/2010 18:04

Well, we've just had DH's parents over for Sunday lunch, and DD1 asked to be excused about 10 minutes in!
I thought 'bit strange, she was starving not 20 minutes ago..'

Anyway, as soon as they left, she came downstairs with her laptop and said 'Mum, do you know there's a few societys for people who hate noisy eaters?'

She then proceeded on a 30 minute rant about how her grandparents/fathers eating makes her cringe and want to cry!
Was very shocked, she hadn't said anything before this, except for a few 'Dad, eat with your mouth closed!' when we have the (few) family dinners.

DH ended up shouting at her to not be rude to her elders and that they don't eat noisily, she's just nitpicking.
She told him to get some manners and speak without food in his mouth or get out of her face.

I almost laughed, honestly, didn't know what to do. Have you any advise for how to handle this? We have very rare family dinners and it's now escalated into a huge row between DD1 and DH.

Quite understand where she's coming from as you can hear F/MIL chewing from across the room - but think it's not chewing, its the sound of food in the mouth IYSWIM?

Arghhh..What was originally a request for advice has come out as a rant Blush.

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GMajor7DeadlySins · 24/10/2010 18:16

Your DD is quite right. Noisy eating can be disgusting and very offputting for other diners. The difficluty lies in how to address it - other posters will probably have some better ideas, but I'm not sure there is a solution to this one.

My MIL talks with her mouth full of food and it drives me nuts, but what can you say that won't end up causing a feud? Best to explain to DD that remaining schtum would be the way to go. Your DH on the other hand should be setting an example and deserves the telling of your DD gave him!!

Good luck!

ComeWhineWithMe · 24/10/2010 18:17

She is right one of my first memories is my telling my uncle to "Stop making that tatty noise" Grin.

I still can't stand it now there is just no need for it all.

goodlifemummy · 24/10/2010 19:50

Uuurgh - I can't bear it either, and sometimes it makes me want to leave the table too. I'm afraid I'm on her side!!

ConnorTraceptive · 24/10/2010 19:53

Can I borrow her I really need someone to be this blunt with DH!

ChaosInCamelot · 24/10/2010 19:59

I hate this- used to drive me mad when my dad ate loudly when I was a teenager. Still hate hearing people chewing. Have to put some music on if we have family over for a meal. Dh sometimes chomps a bit but I tell him to shut up!

It is just so disgusting and such bad manners. I can sympathise with your dd but no advice sorry.

LelloLorry · 24/10/2010 20:08

Connor, you certainly can, she often deals it out whether requested or not Grin.

Thanks for the advice 7DS!

I said that next time, being politer wouldn't go amiss, but if bothered then she can, of course, be excused. She wasn't happy and had a bit of a strop, said they should chew quietly anyway. Just DH to deal with now, should be plenty fun Hmm.

Thanks everyone else :).

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BuntyPenfold · 25/10/2010 11:24

She should try eating with my MIL who takes chewed food out of her mouth and arranges it in a circle of lumps around the edge of her plate!

[vomit emoticon needed]

MumsieNonna · 25/10/2010 15:42

OMG BuntyP that's gross! Shock

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