And for those expecting a return actually I've never flounced in 8 years LOL, this is really it.
Lately I have been toying with the idea of going- increassingly posters make me feel bad about myself, sometimes through my own guilt but sometimes through meaness and it is the latter today. It has severely sapped my confidence in small batches, and I need to call it a day and get on with building myself a real life, working towards my MA and whatever else needs doing.
Good luck all of you, but I have to take care of myself. Life isn't playing fair again right now, and I need to be out there fighting not using my righteous energy on here.