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Accidently killed a fish :( feel so guilty

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Rinoachicken · 31/01/2015 20:14

So I thought I'd do something nice for my fish (350l community tank) and decided to try and grow a moss wall along the back to give a more natural feel to the tank. Did a load of research on the best way to do it, chose my materials carefully and spent about an hour threading all the Christmas moss through the aquarium mesh, mounting the whole thing onto suckers and putting it in the tank.

Looked great, (if patchy but will grow in), and what was better the fish were all really curious and went for a look, started nibbling etc and seemed to really like it.

That was 2 days ago and all good until this just now I saw one of my barbs had somehow got himself stuck behind the mesh (so behind the mesh and the glass). He can't have been there that long (all accounted for this morning) but I was too late in seeing him and he had died :(

I feel so guilty! He would never have died if it weren't for me trying to do something too clever for my own good. I've hauled out the moss wall and made some adjustments and reinstalled and I'm confident there are now NO gaps or anything where a fish could get in behind, but I still feel so bad.

I know I'm probably overthinking things, no doubt most will say 'it's just a fish'. But I love my fish and they are my responsibility and I want them to be happy and healthy and have good long lives.

Of course I've lost the occasional fish to illness over the years, but this is different somehow. Because it died from something I did rather than natural causes.

Anyone else ever accidently killed or injured a fish??

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Rinoachicken · 31/01/2015 20:15

Wow that was long!! Sorry Blush

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HouseAtreides · 31/01/2015 20:31

I had a newish goldfish get trapped under a piece of wood that had shifted a few years ago. I felt dreadful!

Endler32 · 31/01/2015 22:20

These things happen, I gave had a few accidents including cooking my expensive Corys last year ( faulty heater in my hospital tank ) Sad

WhenMarnieWasThere · 31/01/2015 22:25

I sucked a white cloud mountain minnows up my cleaning syphon years ago. It had a quick flow and no grid thing at the top so before I spotted it the poor thing had been sucked into the pipe and lodged there, head first. By the time I got it out it was dead.

Rinoachicken · 31/01/2015 22:37

Thanks everyone, feel a bit better now I know I'm not the only one! (Sorry about your fish though obviously!).

Have myself a stern talking to when I realised I was sat watching the rest of the barbs swimming round and wondered if they were sad and wondering where the other one was. Hmm

Really need to stop anthropomorphising my fish!!!

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EauRouge · 01/02/2015 09:31

One of my friends accidentally tipped one of her corys down the loo when she was doing a water change- these accidents happen, don't beat yourself up. You've made changes to the mesh so it won't happen again, so you obviously care about your fish! Can we see some photos of the moss wall once it settles in?

Rinoachicken · 01/02/2015 10:08

Of course! Hoping it doesn't take too long to grow in

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Sofarris · 19/02/2015 11:29

It's clear you really care about your fish and that you have good intentions in what you do so I don't think there's any need for you to feel guilty. Like people have said, these things happen. It is a real shame but I'm sure it had a good life up until that point.

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