I hated it. Too heavy on its 'message'. Even in the US I don't think people's entire relationships are based upon the colour of their skin - I don't just mean romantic relationships but friendships, family relationships etc. Did these people really have NO other topics of conversation?
I was also really uncomfortable about the way they protrayed the Jewish mother and black father as being as bad as each other. Shelley's positive discrimination may have been clumsy and a bit annoying but she actually did her very best to be friendly and welcoming. Portraying the ring tangled in wig incident as something racially biased was ridiculous and pretty disgusting. Shocking I know but white people can also wear wigs and the incident was clearly an accident so why oh why did race have to be part of the issue? Oh yes, because this film didn't have any other plot points to make. But this behaviour was not in any way on a par with the black father, who admitted taking an instant hatred to the white boy because of just that, he's a white boy, and then setting out to deliberately sabotage him. That's plain nasty and should not in any way have been compared to the Jewish mother.
Yeah, the whole thing was pretty horrible and I got bored with feeling my eyes rolling.