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AI is enabling low talent men to succeed in the workplace in a way they couldn’t have done on their own.

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lacklustre · 22/10/2026 23:58

Last week I was in a senior leaders meeting, a man who is knew to the company gave a presentation and hadn’t even bothered to disguise the telltale AI giveaways - the capitalised headings, the emdashes, the lot. The other men in the room praised him enthusiastically for his excellent work and he happily accepted their praise.

I work in a male dominated industry and I’m seeing this more and more and while I love AI and use it as a tool, I’m seeing so much stuff sent to me by male colleagues that’s clearly not their own work. I have a boss who’s decided he no longer needs the services of a consultant because he can be his own consultant with AI. He also runs most of my work through AI and then sends me ‘his’ improved version. Another male colleague even uses AI to write his WhatsApp messages. And they all constantly congratulate each other on their incredible work.

Is this a thing now? Of course I imagine lots of women use it in this way too. But in my large company, this is increasingly common and it’s like robots praising robots. Find it all quite disturbing especially when I know that two years ago, some of them were on work performance plans almost at the point of being managed out of the company.

Does it even matter? If I can’t beat them, should I just join them and start doing it myself?

OP posts:
Owninterpreter · 23/10/2026 08:34

I really enjoyed Technology is not Neutral by Stephanie Hare if anyone wants a read.

whythehellnow · 23/10/2026 08:48

Btc76 · 23/10/2026 08:24

An Interesting and Thought-Provoking Perspective on AI, Gender and Workplace Competence! 🚀
Thank you for sharing your observations! You’ve raised some fascinating questions about the intersection of artificial intelligence, professional capability and gender dynamics in the modern workplace.
However, I think there are three important considerations worth unpacking:
✅ AI is gender-neutral: The ability to leverage AI to enhance professional output is not an inherently male or female characteristic. Both men and women can benefit from these transformative technologies!
✅ AI-assisted productivity is not necessarily incompetence: There is a crucial distinction between lacking the ability to perform a task independently and possessing the skills to harness AI effectively. Indeed, knowing how to use the right tools may itself be an increasingly valuable professional competency.
✅ Anecdotes are not evidence of gender differences: While your personal experiences are undoubtedly valid, observing this behaviour among male colleagues in a male-dominated industry does not establish that it is a predominantly male phenomenon.
Here’s the bigger question: If AI enables individuals to produce work that exceeds their unaided cognitive capabilities, are we witnessing the democratisation of professional excellence or a fundamental redefinition of meritocracy?
And, perhaps most intriguingly, if you use AI yourself, why interpret similar behaviour by male colleagues as evidence of their inadequacy?
Ultimately, this isn’t a conversation about men versus women. It’s a conversation about human intelligence, technological augmentation and the future of professional competence.
Food for thought! 💡
#AI #FutureOfWork #GenderEquality #Meritocracy #DigitalTransformation #ThoughtLeadership

lol

secretrocker · 23/10/2026 08:53

You work in a male dominated industry surrounded by men and so of course you are going to see men using it.
It's a tool.
If you worked in a female dominated industry you'd see women using it more than men.

bimblebomblebamble · 23/10/2026 11:35

Btc76 · 23/10/2026 08:25

All of the above is what I think about this issue

I hope you posted it to make the point that pointless, dull AI waffle usually adds nothing 😁

SummerLightning · 23/10/2026 18:54

Btc76 · 23/10/2026 08:24

An Interesting and Thought-Provoking Perspective on AI, Gender and Workplace Competence! 🚀
Thank you for sharing your observations! You’ve raised some fascinating questions about the intersection of artificial intelligence, professional capability and gender dynamics in the modern workplace.
However, I think there are three important considerations worth unpacking:
✅ AI is gender-neutral: The ability to leverage AI to enhance professional output is not an inherently male or female characteristic. Both men and women can benefit from these transformative technologies!
✅ AI-assisted productivity is not necessarily incompetence: There is a crucial distinction between lacking the ability to perform a task independently and possessing the skills to harness AI effectively. Indeed, knowing how to use the right tools may itself be an increasingly valuable professional competency.
✅ Anecdotes are not evidence of gender differences: While your personal experiences are undoubtedly valid, observing this behaviour among male colleagues in a male-dominated industry does not establish that it is a predominantly male phenomenon.
Here’s the bigger question: If AI enables individuals to produce work that exceeds their unaided cognitive capabilities, are we witnessing the democratisation of professional excellence or a fundamental redefinition of meritocracy?
And, perhaps most intriguingly, if you use AI yourself, why interpret similar behaviour by male colleagues as evidence of their inadequacy?
Ultimately, this isn’t a conversation about men versus women. It’s a conversation about human intelligence, technological augmentation and the future of professional competence.
Food for thought! 💡
#AI #FutureOfWork #GenderEquality #Meritocracy #DigitalTransformation #ThoughtLeadership

Hehe see what you did there meat proxy 😂
Did not make that up myself @harderthanIexpected it's a well worn term in tech!

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/10/2026 19:03

EmeraldRoulette · 23/10/2026 00:54

I’m not sure this is true

It can make a guess from how you have phrased your query, but if you give it neutral words, then it won’t know. I suppose an in-depth query about promotions might give away enough for it to tell.

so for example, if I said to it “I need help building a case to increase my daily rate” I’m pretty sure that’s neutral enough that it wouldn’t know if I was a man or a woman.

Edited

If you're using the one-off free tools with no memory, then maybe.

But if you're into AI, your AI has memory, knows a lot about you and will start pulling that in.

If you've given it your CV, and it can see your name, it will infer

It absolutely does give different answers - it reflects the world it was trained on, and that world is misogynistic and patriarchal

CousinBette · 23/10/2026 19:04

I think a lot of mediocre men are impressed by the way AI presents things, even if the actual content is mediocre or worse. It’s just another form of male bullshitting.

AI-generated content is often twice as long as the source material you fed into it, which also seems to impress. Again, the equivalent is the pompous wordy jargon-filled way your not-very-bright bloke tries to big himself up to colleagues.

EmeraldRoulette · 23/10/2026 19:10

FlatCatYellowMat · 23/10/2026 19:03

If you're using the one-off free tools with no memory, then maybe.

But if you're into AI, your AI has memory, knows a lot about you and will start pulling that in.

If you've given it your CV, and it can see your name, it will infer

It absolutely does give different answers - it reflects the world it was trained on, and that world is misogynistic and patriarchal

Oh, I see! Makes sense.

@CousinBette yeah I always have to tell it to be concise.

BillieWiper · 23/10/2026 19:26

PollyBell · 23/10/2026 00:37

What about low talent women? How do they fit in? Especially the ones that don't have the intelligence to enter the work place at all?

Fit in where? If they're too 'unintelligent' to work at all then I can't imagine them stealing OPs thunder or being praised for work that was created by an AI?

akkakk · 23/10/2026 19:56

socialdilemmawhattodo · 23/10/2026 01:19

But they are not doing the job, at all. AI delivers a summary of what is available online. I am taking a degree and my lecturer asked who was using AI. I said not, as i wasn't using AI, but then got curious. So asked a couple of questions. I was provided with misleading answers, which I knew enough to challenge and did; AI response varied their answer to acknowledge the errors. It would not have done that had I not challenged. AI is not accurate and there is no verification process.

AI is not accurate

That is too simplistic... AI is very good in more quantitive work - less good in qualitative work.

So ask it 2 + 2 and you are very likely to get 4... go along that route and you can see that it is good at coding / assembling data / etc. where there are clear cut answers it can work well and is much faster than a human - I gave ChatGPT a complete website today - written originally for PHP 5.6 and said update it to php 8.5 compatible - within 2 minutes I had a zip file - uploaded it and job done - no issues... far faster than I could have managed!

however... ask it to explain patterns of poverty by race, class and geography in the UK and it will as with all things subjective, only be able to answer based on material it has seen and indexed, and that could be right, it could be wrong...

It has a place - but understanding how to use it is key... and generally those who are better at doing that will get better advantages from using it

NibliaBiblia · 24/10/2026 12:27

I'm using it to flag up variations on construction projects and to measure some of them. It makes mistakes but it also catches things I would have missed, including my mistakes. It's not so good at reading the drawings but much better than I am with text notes, employers/contractors requirements/specifications etc.
Sometimes it's best to let it do the work first and then correct it. But presentations and emails are not that time!

NibliaBiblia · 24/10/2026 12:33

CousinBette · 23/10/2026 19:04

I think a lot of mediocre men are impressed by the way AI presents things, even if the actual content is mediocre or worse. It’s just another form of male bullshitting.

AI-generated content is often twice as long as the source material you fed into it, which also seems to impress. Again, the equivalent is the pompous wordy jargon-filled way your not-very-bright bloke tries to big himself up to colleagues.

Once again the problem is: too many mediocre men 😂

MaIeficent · 24/10/2026 23:18

Sounds like he did a good job in the meeting if everyone else was impressed. Are you sure it isn't just bitter grapes, OP? Not saying that in a snarky way. It can defo be annoying when you put the effort in and a workmate finds a hack to do it in half the time while still getting equal praise.

I mean, it's a worse scenario IMO if we really are getting bested by all these mediocre men!

HisStericalTestes · 24/10/2026 23:31

It has been proven to stop women getting jobs on application if there are any gaps for childcare and it prefers men because they earn more than female counterparts so it assumes they are "better".

That's before they even get in the door to pretend they earned even more to whoever asks face to face...

NibliaBiblia · 25/10/2026 04:41

MaIeficent · 24/10/2026 23:18

Sounds like he did a good job in the meeting if everyone else was impressed. Are you sure it isn't just bitter grapes, OP? Not saying that in a snarky way. It can defo be annoying when you put the effort in and a workmate finds a hack to do it in half the time while still getting equal praise.

I mean, it's a worse scenario IMO if we really are getting bested by all these mediocre men!

We call that scenario "sexism".

Piglet89 · 25/10/2026 07:21

Jesus how thick/lazy do you have to be not at least to remove the AI giveaways?

MaIeficent · 25/10/2026 22:49

NibliaBiblia · 25/10/2026 04:41

We call that scenario "sexism".

Sometimes though it seems like one could call it "an excuse".

lacklustre · 25/10/2026 22:55

MaIeficent · 24/10/2026 23:18

Sounds like he did a good job in the meeting if everyone else was impressed. Are you sure it isn't just bitter grapes, OP? Not saying that in a snarky way. It can defo be annoying when you put the effort in and a workmate finds a hack to do it in half the time while still getting equal praise.

I mean, it's a worse scenario IMO if we really are getting bested by all these mediocre men!

I don’t see how it’s sour grapes? Several of us were giving presentations and instead of using slides, he put his notes up on the screen complete with all the AI handprints - little emojis, emboldened text, capitalised headings etc. I’m surprised he didn’t actually include the prompt too. The other people in the room are less AI savvy so for whatever reason didn’t spot it, hence the huge amount of praise which was showered upon him.

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bimblebomblebamble · 25/10/2026 23:08

MaIeficent · 25/10/2026 22:49

Sometimes though it seems like one could call it "an excuse".

One could, and I'm sure from time to time that is the case.

However, the evidence is that men and women are judged differently, with men assumed to be more competent than women. A man who provides a superficial overview is often seen as high level, leadership focussed, whereas a woman is often seen as not having a fundamental understanding and grasp of the details. This is exacerbated by both sexes feeling more comfortable challenging women than men, meaning both that women come across as less authorative and that we can't flow as smothly as men.

Here's just a few examples of studies showing the type of unconscious bias I am talking about:

https://www.nyu.edu/about/news-publications/news/2020/july/men-more-likely-than-women-to-be-seen-as-brilliant-.html?challenge=d06e90d7-4d8f-4b88-9d8c-10b73beb60f1

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC9940093/

https://www.forbes.com/sites/kimelsesser/2024/02/26/men-forget-about-female-researchers-says-study-on-gender-citation-gap/

https://www.inc.com/heather-wilde/a-harvard-study-shows-that-men-are-5-times-more-believable-than-women.html

https://www.advisory.com/daily-briefing/2017/07/07/men-interrupting-women

Crispynoodle · 25/10/2026 23:11

Sorry but if a man who has lower intelligence/ability than you uses ai to further his career then why are you not using it to enhance your superior ability?

manosphere · 25/10/2026 23:33

I work in a female dominated field . I have always been technically better than my female colleagues as are most of the chaps I’ve worked with. They counter by being better at the governance and report writing aspects and have historically made sure that this is routinely identified through audit.

AI has allowed me to vastly improve my output and quality in my weakest area whilst it isn’t able to improve their technical ability much to their dismay I am currently killing it .

BinturongsSmellOfPopcorn · Yesterday 12:40

AI is very good in more quantitive work - less good in qualitative work.
So ask it 2 + 2 and you are very likely to get 4.

"Very likely".

I'd call that 'hopelessly incompetent' rather than 'very good'.

Jrisix · Yesterday 12:50

The worst offender for this in my team is female. But I notice she spews AI slop very obviously into emails and reports, whereas my male boss is very good at passing off AI feedback as his own insightful thoughts without getting caught.

Perhaps men are just more practised at confidently presenting other people’s ideas as their own!

CousinBette · Yesterday 19:44

manosphere · 25/10/2026 23:33

I work in a female dominated field . I have always been technically better than my female colleagues as are most of the chaps I’ve worked with. They counter by being better at the governance and report writing aspects and have historically made sure that this is routinely identified through audit.

AI has allowed me to vastly improve my output and quality in my weakest area whilst it isn’t able to improve their technical ability much to their dismay I am currently killing it .

What field is this?

girlwhowearsglasses · Today 11:06

Owninterpreter · 23/10/2026 08:34

I really enjoyed Technology is not Neutral by Stephanie Hare if anyone wants a read.

Off to look for this Thanks