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How do you (or would you advise someone to) stay safe travelling by train?

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JFDIYOLO · 19/09/2025 14:51

I've commuted on and off for a long time and had two nasty experiences at the hands of train creeps when I was much younger.

Both times, I froze and was meek and never reported it.

So my advice would be:

Travel! - get out there and stride - and be alert and aware.

Don't assume rush hour is safer - gropers and thieves love crowds.

Keep alert on the station before you get on, and if there's someone behaving oddly, use a different entrance or wait for the next train.

Sit on an aisle seat so you can't be squished against the window and can move elsewhere.

Don't settle and spread - stay mobile, keep your stuff easy to scoop and shift.

Keep phone & purse in your bag not on the table and keep your bag on you - a cross body bag is harder to nick.

Don't fall asleep or get completely lost in a book or podcast - keep alert.

Use a single ear pod rather than headphones so you can hear if something's happening.

Look and listen about you, so you can notice odd behaviour and switch to another carriage or get off.

Know how to call for help on the train or platform.

Some will go on about victim blaming, it shouldn't be on us to stay safe etc etc. But just as we lock our home, car, bike etc, we can increase our own security.

What would you advise?

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titchy · 22/12/2025 19:38

PrawnofthePatriarchy · 09/10/2025 15:55

I was in the crowd waiting to exit the Tube when I felt a man groping my arse. I grabbed his hand, swivelled round and pointed at him, announcing what he'd been doing in a loud, clear voice. It was one of my best moments...

He thought he could use the dense crowd to get away with his crime. Instead the crowd trapped him where he stood. He stood there while everyone stared at him in disgust, some muttering. Slimy bastard was absolutely mortified. Ha bloody ha!

I had a very similar experience in my early 20s and reacted the same on a tube years ago - he too was stuck with everyone staring at him till the tube reached the next station where he fled. Grin

Very empowering.

ApplebyArrows · 23/12/2025 15:07

I am constantly on edge in public but usually feel safe on trains, and I think statistics bear out that they are relatively safe places. The combination of having lots of people around plus the fact that it costs money to enter really does make a difference.

I notice a lot of the anecdotes seem to involve London in some way but we're probably not supposed to mention that.

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