Misogyny in the family courts

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An article outlining what many survivors of domestic abuse have known for years, that Judges reinforce abuse.
www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/family-court-judges-misogyny-domestic-abuse-b2595125.html

This is disgraceful

“If you are so afraid of him and we are to believe what you’ve said, how can you sit near him in court?”

That judge doesn't know what courage is.

Shame we can't ask those judges, since they think DV is 50/50, how many men are killed each week by female partners/ex partners? Men kill at least 3 women a week in the UK. I haven't included how many children (to punish the woman) some men kill as well because I haven't researched the statistics. (So much for " hell have no fury like a woman scorned") I'm willing to bet it's extremely rare for a woman to do that to children, to punish a man. Male judges haven't a clue how women think or feel, or how physically vulnerable they are, especially in the home and with children. These controlling men break their partner's spirit and confidence so they feel worthless and weak.
For judges to subject the ones brave enough to charge their partners to further abuse, is cruel and unnecessary punishment. It needs to stop so we must challenge misogynistic attitudes whenever we encounter them.

And as if she would've had a choice!
The alternative would've been she doesn't show and loses her child!

I work in the family justice system and have done for 20 years. I completely agree that many experienced judges do not understand domestic abuse. I also believe and have seen that newer judges and newer practice directions are hugely improving through training and attitudes. The impact of domestic abuse is drummed into judges in training now, in lots of different ways including workshops and watching dramatisations.
However the biggest difficulty facing even the most excellent judges is that the family court requires evidence, on the balance of probability, to prove facts. Without evidence it is very difficult to say that something is proven. And we all know that domestic abuse is so hard to prove based on fact and evidence. Every single case has to turn on it's own evidence.
Another major issue is the stopping of legal aid for most cases means that even if there are facts to be proven, without a solicitor putting those facts before a judge in a coherent and persuasive way is not easy.
And, I know this is not good enough but, the judicial system is stretched to breaking point and judges, particularly on the district bench, have a ridiculous caseload to get through every day without admin support and with a considerable amount of pressure to get cases resolved.
I don't know what the answers are but I do see what the problems are every day and it's not just down to judges needing more training.

At least they've stopped abusers from cross examining their victims.

There's an article here written by a barrister about some of the horrendous treatment she's seen of victims in Family Courts
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/mar/29/abusers-family-courts-victims-journalists