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Discussions about pornography on Woman’s Hour.

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Ramblingnamechanger · 22/03/2024 00:39

Seems to be a series of items covering the topic quite thoroughly. Mondays was very sad with a woman talked about her husbands addiction. While I don’t think addiction is necessarily helpful when talking about men’s behaviour the woman’s pain was very evident, and she really showed how trust is lost. On another programme last week, an interesting piece of research has been done which says that many or most women prefer to watch lesbian porn or gay male porn because there is no inherent misogyny or violence involving male on female. Generally the attitudes that held sway a few years ago that we can all have what we want and that it is somehow empowering has been replaced by a more realistic assessment of the harm that it does. Worth a listen

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deydododatdodontdeydo · 22/03/2024 08:03

Are the women actors in lesbian porn treated better and not exploited or abused as much as those in heterosexual porn? Same for the men in gay male porn, many of whom I heard were actually straight (I assume this is the case in lesbian porn too).

bloodynewusernameagain · 22/03/2024 08:40

Thanks for this, I was dreading clicking on your thread to find that WH was going to be spouting the "empowering for everyone" BS. Happy to read this was not the case!

Shazann · 27/03/2024 01:26

Porn addiction is real. I might listen in on it .I'm separated not yet divorced. Over thirty five years with my spouse.. porn addiction real . I tolerated for years and turned blind eye but it escalated...major double life, secret debt, thousands spent on it...camgirl cybersex. He claims harmless fun and not betrayal.

Worse than the porn and. Lies and financial betrayal is the denial, gaslighting , blaming me and him playing victim... It's been a nightmare..we've been separated a year.. I'm getting over it but he's a mess... Depressed and lost his x drive so he can't even watch it now..he's given everything up for it..we're still paying off the debt..it's sad..there needs to more awareness of this... It's destroyed our family and yet he would still defend it with no idea he's addicted .. he now blames me for his depression and anxiety... Never his fault. Only way to deal with it is leave
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