www.womenarehuman.com/male-with-transgender-identification-female-clothes-beat-woman-on-date/
'However, the recorder took into consideration the solicitor’s argument that Mr Ahmed may have been embarrassed to be seen on video while dressed to look like a woman.'
This is a 6 foot man, with boxing experience, who beat the crap out of a 5foot2 woman because she took a video call from her and he may have been embarrassed as he was wearing women's clothes. He beat her so badly she was passing in and out of consciousness, suffering serious physical and psychological harm.
How is this a mitigating factor? Since when does a man feeling humiliated in anyway excuse him violently assaulting a woman? Why does this man's feelings trump her physical and psychological safety?
I am just disgusted by that comment. A boy at my son's junior school hit a girl as he felt humiliated by something she did, and he is now getting shit from his male friends for it. They are kids and they get it.
So how can adults in positions of responsibility in this age in the UK be still saying its ok for men to violently lose their shit at women if they feel humiliated?!
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Man feels humiliated so beats the crap out of woman
smallbeetle · 23/06/2022 16:32
smallbeetle · 23/06/2022 16:56
Well I don't think whether they are in or out of the closet should be a factor.
The only factor is that they beat the crap out of a woman because they felt embarrassed! The reasons behind the embarrassment are only a factor if (a) you are a raging misogynist and (B) you think it is ok for men to launch violent physical assaults when their emotions get too much for them.
ClaudiusTheGod · 23/06/2022 16:38
WTF?
The recorder (a man?) also mentions the guy’s transgender identity … so is the perpetrator in or out of the closet… or just a very angry violent misogynist???
smallbeetle · 23/06/2022 16:32
www.womenarehuman.com/male-with-transgender-identification-female-clothes-beat-woman-on-date/
'However, the recorder took into consideration the solicitor’s argument that Mr Ahmed may have been embarrassed to be seen on video while dressed to look like a woman.'
This is a 6 foot man, with boxing experience, who beat the crap out of a 5foot2 woman because she took a video call from her and he may have been embarrassed as he was wearing women's clothes. He beat her so badly she was passing in and out of consciousness, suffering serious physical and psychological harm.
How is this a mitigating factor? Since when does a man feeling humiliated in anyway excuse him violently assaulting a woman? Why does this man's feelings trump her physical and psychological safety?
I am just disgusted by that comment. A boy at my son's junior school hit a girl as he felt humiliated by something she did, and he is now getting shit from his male friends for it. They are kids and they get it.
So how can adults in positions of responsibility in this age in the UK be still saying its ok for men to violently lose their shit at women if they feel humiliated?!
JellySaurus · 27/06/2022 13:00
What does 'GBH without intent' mean?
Seems to me that he had every intent of harming the woman grievously. Why else would he have continued with the assault?
Or is it because he did not lure her to his house with the intent of harming her, and only changed his mind once he had started harming her?
Eliveonline · 27/06/2022 16:06
However, the recorder took into consideration the solicitor’s argument that Mr Ahmed may have been embarrassed to be seen on video while dressed to look like a woman
I read the article and it sounds like this part was lip service. A head nod to the solicitor for the defence who made this argument- which it is their job to do
You see, I think we need to get to the stage as a society where we know it is completely unacceptable to pay lip service to any argument like this (if indeed it was lip service' . And that defence would no more think to make a defence like this than they would offer for the defence of a rapist, ' Well the weather was really hot and sunny and that was making him feel really horny, and the victim has a really pert ass, so..' Just like that would not be considered a defence or paid 'lip service' to, so ' he felt embarrassed so he beat the living daylights out of her' should not be considered a defence. He offered it as a defence, and it was 'taken into consideration' because as society we still see something legitimate in that defence; that is what it is reflecting.
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