Bit of a rant - sorry! I have two sons that play football (17 and 12) and the level of insults that are hurled on the pitch is shocking. My sons' team won't allow it but the other teams often do. Yesterday the opposing team's captain angrily shouted "f@k all your family" at my elder son. This is becoming more common. My younger son was recently temporarily banned for pushing a player who said "your mum f@ks around". The other player was 12!! No punishment. I'm not condoning what my son did but the atmosphere is horrible now. Even some of the parents join in! I am not in the UK and some of the insults are in Italian (local language) and some in Arabic- but all the players understand them. I get that trying to wind each other up is part of the game but more and more frequently this is directed at women especially the players' mothers. My ds was really confused at first - I had to explain that this player didn't actually know me - he was just trying to wind him up!! As I said, it seems impossible to fight as my sons' team actually forbids it but they can't control other teams. Is it as bad in the UK?
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