DH on the surface is Mr Wonderful, he’s handsome, kind to people, helps people when in need, helps around the house, good with the kids, never put a finger on me, or cheated however he lies, gaslights me terribly about almost everything and I’ve not felt this insecure, awful or second guessed myself ever.
He just doesn’t see it (a true gaslighter).
We have 3 children, mortgage, car, holidays, good sex life.. but I’m so torn.. being a feminist has taught me a lot over the years, this is my second marriage (no DC from previous marriage) and I know I’m worth love from someone that is compassionate and has empathy, someone that when they hurt me- regrets it and apologises but I just don’t have that and it’s a constant battle especially with very small children too.
What would you do?
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Married a male gaslighter
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Trytobetoo · 15/02/2022 17:44
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