@Swear
I do remember a fellow student commenting that he thought that rape shouldn't be a criminal offence in itself - there should only be a charge at all if the woman was injured.
Men really really really aren't women. A lot of them genuinely don't comprehend that.
To many men, 'cottaging' in a gay bar or a pub is easy to understand: Instant intimate contact with a stranger seems natural to them.
They forget that mutual attraction and mutual consent is involved in those events, and that if another man attempted force, his intended man-prey would have a fair chance of fighting free, unsodomised.
There's a lot wrong with porn, but perhaps the least noted is the worst: In the male's fantasy-land, all women are like the males of most animal species during mating season; crazed with eagerness at every possibility.
(All women are young and within the top 10% of attractiveness, too, and never have periods, never need condoms, and surprisingly never become pregnant nor contract and transmit disease)
A man's brain may cope with the idea that a woman might have ideally preferred a different man, or different surroundings, or that wierd women-creatures seem to like some kinds of courtship ritual. But he possibly won't truly understand that unlike him, some women would sometimes prefer not to copulate at all, even when there is the perfect opportunity of someone else being nearby.
Yes, NAMALT. But it only needs one who is, to wreck or to end a life.