UsernameNotAvailableHmm · 28/01/2022 19:03
The first time was 18 years, I had little choice as those were the first 18 years of my life.
Growing up I learned so much about men from my father.
The second time was only a few months.
I was able to notice the red flags very quickly, so maybe my father did me a favour after all, in a very unintentional way.
VelvetChairGirl · 28/01/2022 19:23
if anyone is wondering why I asked, its because the ex is still with someone (been a couple of years) and I find it hard to understand how she hasn't run a mile yet.
good to know I am normal and not a complete moron for ending up saddled with the sod so long.
UsernameNotAvailableHmm · 28/01/2022 19:33
Your ex may still be with someone but you don't know what kind of torment she is going through.
She could be planning her escape as we type.
I only wish everyone who needs to escape a horrible existence with another has the strength and means to do so.
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