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West Yorkshire Police and Domestic Violence

26 replies

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/07/2021 01:13

Tonight, they tweeted this

Excited for England’s #Euro2020 final appearance later today?

A mix of too much beer and the excitement of the football can lead to domestic abuse, help is available for everyone.

Find out more at: t.co/BCGw76a6Qg t.co/5mV04HEVrt

twitter.com/WestYorksPolice/status/1414192965778558979?s=19

As lots of people have pointed out, this phrasing neatly removes all responsibility from the person abusing their family.

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PhilSwagielka · 12/07/2021 02:24

Interesting choice of language there.

Tiari · 12/07/2021 02:33

Yeah, let's advise the abuser not to drink too much, try not to get too excited and help is available if you feel like kicking your wife.

NiceGerbil · 12/07/2021 03:42

Well it's West Yorkshire police...

This is shit messaging.

IdblowJonSnow · 12/07/2021 04:21

Standard from them. Hopefully they'll get a lot of shit for that post.

It isn't 'poorly worded' by the way because that's how they actually fucking think. Illuminating isn't it.

NiceGerbil · 12/07/2021 04:24

Well they posted that got a load of shit and then posted 2 more along the same lines.

So there you go.

Whatwouldscullydo · 12/07/2021 07:36

Do they never learn.

Its just like thise rape campaign.posters putting the responsibility on the victims.

Don't buy your dp booze and let them.watch the football or you might get hit.

Ffs

Why are so many people who get drunk and kick.off at football matches and get violent still home with access to someone to abuse wyp? If you know this happens what are you doing to keep the victims safe ?

Thelnebriati · 12/07/2021 17:46

The ratio must have been terrible, they have deleted the tweet.

TiddyAndFletch · 12/07/2021 17:47

the excitement of the football can lead to domestic abuse

FFS

Talk about minimising.

Thelnebriati · 12/07/2021 17:49

''We regret any offence caused by a recent message about domestic abuse.

Our aim was to raise awareness of this awful and all too common crime, but we heard what you said and accept that this time, we got the tone of the message wrong.''

twitter.com/WestYorksPolice/status/1414537871529238528

Thelnebriati · 12/07/2021 17:50

Its 2021 and they still don't understand DV.

GettingUntrapped · 12/07/2021 17:57

That's very depressing. Reads like,; 'Women, man can get a bit excited by football and it might lead to them beating you up. If they beat you, call this number.'

We need to get more angry because otherwise, they won't bother to examine what they wrote and why women might be offered.

GettingUntrapped · 12/07/2021 17:59

Oh, I see it's been deleted.
Idiots.

PurgatoryOfPotholes · 12/07/2021 18:00

It's not like you even need to understand domestic violence.

It's kind of a staple of being a police officer (enforcing, y'know, the law) that you don't accept drunkenness as an excuse to commit violent crime against anyone.

Intoxication is not a defence!

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sawdustformypony · 12/07/2021 18:13

Intoxication is not a defence!

But it all too easily might be a trigger.

TiddyAndFletch · 12/07/2021 18:31

@sawdustformypony

Intoxication is not a defence!

But it all too easily might be a trigger.

If they'd phrased it 'we are aware that alcohol consumption increases during football tournaments, and this may trigger incidents of domestic abuse' I don't think that would have been unreasonable.

As they've admitted, it's the tone that's completely wrong - 'excitement' - as if they were talking about 10 year old boys playing in their first school match or something.

GettingUntrapped · 12/07/2021 18:44

Yeah, but problem is that many, many men actually don't grow up. They don't.

sawdustformypony · 12/07/2021 18:45

That's it ? the word "excitement" ?

NiceGerbil · 12/07/2021 18:54

So they haven't realised that it's a person that commits the violence who is 100% responsible.

And not that it's not alcohol that commits crimes.

I get pissed and emotional and don't beat anyone up.

It's basic stuff.

NiceGerbil · 12/07/2021 18:55

'We regret any offence caused by a recent message about domestic abuse.

Our aim was to raise awareness of this awful and all too common crime, but we heard what you said and accept that this time, we got the tone of the message wrong.'

They regret offence caused, the famous non apology.

GettingUntrapped · 12/07/2021 21:14

This is what we are dealing with. Thick, simple minded people who don't recognise women as autonomous humans that need REAL protection by the law.

NiceGerbil · 12/07/2021 21:54

Many aren't thick or simple minded.

They are misogynists.

And that's all.

GettingUntrapped · 12/07/2021 21:57

Thanks nicegerbil. I get it. Evil.

NiceGerbil · 13/07/2021 03:02

Not evil necessarily.

Just with a fairly common subconscious belief that women/ girls aren't something you really bother thinking about.

NiceGerbil · 13/07/2021 03:03

Or of course a conscious dislike/ hatred of women.

Hard to tell which is which a lot.

NeedNewKnees · 13/07/2021 14:58

WYPolice are misogynistic so often it's hard not to think it's deliberate.

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