I don't mean to target this particular post but I do have some concerns about the way lesbians are viewed in feminism.
As a bit of background, there is a fair bit of hostility between (some) lesbians and (some) bisexuals and one of the main complaints from lesbians is about (some) bisexual and bicurious women leaving a difficult, unequal relationship with a man and deciding to date a woman - not for an equal relationship but to be the one having their needs prioritised. Lesbians being viewed as "a vibrator on legs who'll be nice to me" is one of the ways I've seen it described - just as a thing to be used to give them orgasms, be nice and supportive and put them first - on the grounds that they've had a tough time so deserve some 'me time' where they are put first. I think they either don't see lesbians as having any problems in life because we aren't dating men, or more likely, they just don't see us as whole people in the same way that they are.
Obviously, we don't normally have that relationship with heterosexual women - and some of us don't have much of a relationship with heterosexual women at all - but I do see parallels with the way lesbians are sometimes portrayed in feminism (and I think a fair bit of this does come from lesbian feminism itself) and I don't think it is a healthy dynamic if we are to build genuine trust, understanding and an equal relationship between lesbian and heterosexual women.
I've seen some heterosexual feminists who resent that lesbians are portrayed as better feminists but I also don't think it's beneficial for lesbians. Firstly, because being the brave foot soldiers of feminism or feminist warriors or however you want to phrase it basically means being expected to do most of the donkey work and put ourselves in harm's way to protect heterosexual and bisexual women but also because the expectations themselves aren't good. Yes, we are put on a pedestal of selfless, feminist virtue but that role doesn't allow room to be a whole person and where does that leave you and how will you be treated if you fall off the pedestal - either because you don't want to fulfill that role or because you're actually just a human being with all the complexities, life challenges and failings that that entails?