In terms of pay rates PM is not really sidelining
Aye, that's true enough, I can't complain about the money. I was thinking of the career progression rather than the pay package.
What advice would you give to avoid getting sidelined in a tech PM role? It’s a really useful insight about the types of projects being assigned, I hadn’t clocked that but I’ll definitely keep my eye out for it in future!
Sorry, I don't have a magic bullet! It's a trap I'm trying to avoid but aware it could get me by the end :)
I'm a permie in a big corporate so my advice is probably only relevant in that context. I think just being aware of the possibility helps a lot, and being prepared to sell yourself/push yourself forward, keep an eye out for the groups that are forming to do the investigations ahead of a project and say "I think I can add value to X and I'd like to be involved". Being honest with your manager about your career goals and also what you don't want helps as well, which I think women are not so good at. As Orange pointed out, a project I would hate might be exactly what someone else relishes so the more open we are about where our skills fit, the more chance of getting work that suits us.
Although all that said, if you do get stuck with a poison project, never complain about it, just knuckle down, do it bloody well, make sure you put effort into comms so you build your visibility and network, and make sure everyone knows you were a really strong team, everyone did a fantastic job and your leadership made that happen :)
But ultimately, I will (and have) left jobs that look great on paper if I don't see my role developing where I want it to go. I absolutely don't think it's my employer's responsibility to only ever give me work I want to do, but I also think I owe it to myself to move on if a role doesn't excite me with where it could lead.