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Traumatizing mental health experience in A&E

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Flowersinthewindowstill · 06/01/2025 14:35

I have had mental health problems most of my life , though never been in the system. Mental health issues mostly related to childhood trauma, which I’ve only just began to accept recently. A few days back I had what felt like a mental and physical breakdown. My legs would hardly function, I was hardly sleeping. I went to A&E as really wanted my symptoms checked out and had the most terrifying experience of my life. I appreciate I was experiencing mania and probably delusions but the whole experience truly made it worse.

When in the waiting room I wanted to leave and they wouldn’t let me. I did run out of the hospital but they came after me and were physically hurting me. I had to accept going back in. I had heard voices during this episode, which has never, ever happened to me before but they were positive. I was in a side room for hours with nurses and doctors. I made it very clear I had no intention of hurting myself or anyone if they released me, but they wouldn’t let me leave. They were also very vague about what was going on so once they sectioned me I was terrified. I walked around the wards a bit to try and talk to other patients.

I was then restrained by security. They struggled to restrain me even though I’m not that strong, and it took multiple people to do so. They kept getting rid of my partner and then calling him back. The nurse then asked him to leave. I was then restrained on a bed by multiple burly men who appeared to be roughing me up a bit on purpose. I was injected multiple times and given drugs. I didn’t really react much to the sedatives.

The next day I was finally seen by mental health doctors and social workers, who asserted they thought I was ok and could go home. I’m covered in terrible bruises and in quite a lot of pain now.

Is this a normal A&E experience for mental health or were theynparticularly bad? I now can’t leave the house and am more traumatised then I was going in.

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Doyouthinktheyknow · 07/01/2025 14:18

I’m sorry this was your experience. Restraint should be an absolute last resort in these situations as it can be re- traumatising and escalate people’s distress.

You obviously were highly distressed at the time and they may have considered you were a risk to yourself hence the actions they took. It sounds like things had calmed somewhat by the time you had your mental health act assessment and it is literally their role to look at least restrictive option.

I hope you can get the support you need in the community.

Dozydeer89 · 25/10/2025 04:27

People who are saying this was the right thing to do have clearly never been in this situation- I can totally empathise. I was lucky I was never forceably sedated like you though i was threatened with it in formal meetings by the psychiatrist. I feel that staff give up quickly in trying to talk you round because that's easier for them to do so. Instead they basically attack you (this is NOT always self defence). I'm still angry for what happened when I was stuck on the ward, and also angry at family for taking me there- I currently pay for therapy for this but feel I will always hold that anger on some level. It's not the place to be when your feeling highly anxious and 100% makes everything worse.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 25/10/2025 06:42

Complain. Take pictures of bruises. Seek advice from an independent mental health advocate or mental health charity.

ProfoundlyPeculiarAndWeird · 25/10/2025 06:58

@Flowersinthewindowstill , apparently there are talk services in some local areas for people who feel traumatised by experiences they have had as mental healthcare patients. The person who told me about such a service mentioned the example of being forcibly injected. The whole of your A&E experience seems like something that you need to be able to try and process by talking to a service like this, someone with training in the sort of trauma you describe.

I've googled a bit and can't find a direct link to this kind of support, but I'm going to link to a page on the Rethink website (which offers support and advocacy for mental health patients). This page provides information about your rights, and the kind of advocacy support you could access if you wanted to make a complaint. But my hope is that if you contacted Rethink directly, they might also be able to signpost you to a talk service to help you process what happened.

Lots of love xxx

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