Not having a very good month. We have an approaching 2 year old boy, and I am very keen for another baby. In fact we have been trying for a year, but not happened yet. But DH finds the parenting thing all very difficult, and said just before Xmas he doesn't like looking after DS at all, and that he really doesn't want another one. This is a bit of a problem, after all you can't really compromise on whether to have another baby or not. Am giving DH plenty of space with the childcare - although to be honest he did bugger all already - and kind of ignoring the contraception thing, and secretly keeping my fingers crossed. I know this is wrong and we should talk about it, but we have such opposed points of view, I don't see how we can reconcile it. Otherwise, things are fine, we get on well - apart from the usual tiredness which makes us snappy. Sorry for the rant, just don't really know what to do at the moment.