There are so many thought-provoking posts on this thread. I too was touched by bbbbob whose mother committed suicide, and the way bbb is able to think of her lovely mum now.
I too have put dates ahead as in "if I am not better by xxxxx" I will definitely commit suicide. I found it something of a comfort. The only thing was it was difficult to find a month when it wasn't someone's birthday, too near chiristmas etc etc. I did it a lot when my first major episode was building up (15 years ago) and am still doing it following my major episode last Easter.
During the winter I forced myself out in the grey rainy weather (CPN told me it would help me) which it did and still does at bad times. My usual walk took me over a railway bridge and I would/will look over it, noting how high it was. I asked my DP sort of innocently if trains still ran on that line and was a bit relieved when he said Yes. We live near a lovely country spot very well used by walkers, families etc and I recall a day when I was feeling crap a month or so ago and I noted a steep hard sand cliff and thought it high enough to do the job. My main worry is that I won't die but will just be maimed etc.
Lately my thoughts have turned to overdose but I don't know how much you need to take. I do know that my particular type of AD can be "fatal in overdose" but again I would just be worried that I'd end up alive with some awful illness as well as the depression. I joined Exit as I have always believed that we should have the right to control our own destiny, and should know the most quick and painless way to do it if we so choose.
Someone on this post said the "looked up" what to take to end life, but I don't think this is possible, otherwsie why would people need to go to Switzerland. One case involved a GP and surely she would know, but she went to Switzerland. Exit talk about certain substances that can be used, but I don't understand why they can't just find out what is given in Switzerland, or is it kept a huge secret?
The one thing I am certain of is that I would not want any attempt to end my life to involve any other person, which is why when the bad times come and I think I cannot stand the pain anymore and the illness tells me I am worthless etc etc etc, I think of overdose. My DH is going away for a week in Oct this year and I have had this in my mind all this year.
It is a great relief to be able to "talk" about this......and Maddie you are welcome here. You are really struggling and I know you have had enough, but please come and talk on this thread.