Me and my now ex partner broke up three months ago and he was a great stepdad to my eight-year-old daughter. He’s been in her life since she was 2. He moved 20 minutes away from where we was living together and I needed to find somewhere else to live. I wanted to stay in the area. However Found it difficult to find somewhere else. My daughter‘s biological dad lives an hour and 30 minutes away from us and so does her grandad from her dads side. I was pressured to move to the city that they currently live in because I was told it’s the best thing to do and told it’s good for my daughter bearing in mind we have lived an hour and a half away for the past five years now and it’s never been an issue and that’s all my daughter’s ever known. I do not feel comfortable living in said city it’s not somewhere that I can see myself and my daughter living permanently. I do not want to rent a property because I don’t want to feel like I’m trapped here however my daughter’s grandad is pressuring me into renting a property. Me and my ex have also been in contact and we want to try again he obviously lives down where we used to live and it would be that me and my daughter would go back there however after speaking to her dad tonight he said you need my permission to do so and you should look to live around here bearing in mind I have expressed my thoughts about living here and made it very clear that it is not something that I want to do he then told me he would take it to court and stop me from moving her which I understand he has a right to do however we’ve lived an hour and a half away for the past five years so why now is it a massive issue any advice would be greatly appreciated.