Me and my husband want a second baby! Our son is 4 in March so we feel it might be a good time to start trying this year so a baby would be born once he's settled in at school, and we are both really broody to have one more child before we're definitely done and our family is complete.
However, I have anxiety about, I don't know, messing things up?
We relocated last year to a 3 bed (3rd bedroom is a tiny box room used as an office) and we're just about doing fine financially (I do get some unwarranted anxiety about money sometimes) but we have almost no debt, etc. It was different circumstances back then, but we struggled a little more when I was on maternity last time (I was only getting statutory mat pay back then and we had almost no family living nearby).
Aaaanyway, I just have a bit of anxiety that I'm gonna make the wrong choice or put too much on us by having another, even though we both want it. We're at a good point and I don't wanna ruin it I guess. The unknown scares me a bit like what if something goes wrong etc. We've been really lucky so far and love being parents more than anything.
Please help 😂 I'm sending myself insane going over and over things in my head