Do I get back with him

[Mumlife6753]

To cut a long story short. Me and my ex have a 6 month old daughter together. He left me when I was 5 months pregnant to get back with his ex. He ended things with her and we got back together 5 weeks before our daughter was born. He then left again when our daughter was 9 weeks old to go back to the woman he left me for previously. He now wants to get back together says he’s made the worst mistake of his life… only that woman is currently 12 weeks pregnant. He says she’s trapped him because she was jealous of our child and that’s all she’s ever wanted. I love this man with my whole heart but I can’t go through him leaving me for her again. I’m so stuck. My head is telling me never go back. But my heart wants us together. She knew I was pregnant when they got together the first time. And I was left to do pregnancy alone. Does it make me a bad person for wanting her to go through that so she actually understands what she and him put me through

No. It's a complete sentence.

Raise your standards, drop this one back into the trash and focus on yourself, your child and building a secure and solid future for you both

No. You can’t trust him.

Thank you you’ve both told me what I already know. Been told today her due date is 5 days before our daughter’s first birthday. So he got her pregnant within two weeks of leaving us. I just messaged him saying I hope you treat this family you’ve created better than you’ve treated us. You’ll always have access to your daughter but you’ll never have access to me again.

So proud of you. You’re doing the right thing and deserve so much more than this x