Hey just looking for some advise.
I am currently 4 weeks pregnant (I assume) I have not had a period since the birth of my son 6 months ago, I am a breastfeeding mum, and have fallen pregnant again using protection and breastfeeding which is unfortunate, my clear blue test gave me a 2-3 weeks reading.
We will be terminating the pregnancy, we have been advised medically that my folate levels are too low to support a healthy pregnancy meaning baby would most likely be very disabled along with the fact pregnancy is not encouraged within the first 12 months PP. Also honestly, I just dont want another baby yet, I have 2 children now & I am stretched enough, I have to think of the welfare of my two living children.
I have never had a termination before, I am really scared, my partner is taking 4 days off work to be with me throughout as timeframe wise this is how long it should take doing a medical abortion.
although the decision was made quickly, it has not come easy, we tried for almost a year to get our most recent little boy so to fall so quickly has really been a head wobble, medically, emotionally and physically I am not in a position to support another child and I believe this is fair enough, can someone please explain what will happen to me and how I will feel following on?
I also have a surprise 30th this weekend for my very close friend and am wondering will I be ok to drink alcohol? My decision will not change in regards to termination and my appt is not for another 10 days.
any advice would be much appreciated 🤍