I had my first DC 15 months ago. My very naive plan was to one day have 4 children (ðŸ˜ðŸ˜‚). Pregnancy with DC was uncomfortable, birth was traumatic and recovery is still ongoing. I do physio for my pelvic floor and it has improved to almost normal, I am having therapy for PTSD from birth. I am also 105kg at 163cm (I think that's 16 stones at 5ft3in).
Given the above I am really not ready to conceive again HOWEVER I do know if I don't have just one more baby, I will regret it. DC is the first baby of the generation on both mine and DH's side and has no cousins. I never wanted a big age gap between DC and future siblings. However, given how obese I am it poses a risk to both unborn baby and myself. Also, I am 35 and DH is 44 so really time is not on our side..
Should we TTC? Or only TTC until I have lost A LOT of weight? I was considering taking Mounjaro to propel my weight loss endeavours but unsure if it will impact my fertility on the other side. Other than what I've mentioned my cycles have always been regular and it's only through my own self neglect I've gotten so big etc.
Any advice hugely appreciated