@Pinkrose19
I had an epidural with my first and absolutely nothing with my second. We had an unplanned home birth on Friday, we couldn’t make it to hospital in time so my partner delivered the baby before the paramedics arrived!
I can’t believe how quickly I’ve started to recover this time, with the epidural I couldn’t feel my legs so relied on the midwives to pass me the baby. My daughter was also extremely dopey, she slept all night. It seemed to take days to feel okay again.
This time around I’ve been mobile throughout, even when we got to hospital for my stitches I was up and about having a shower and tending to my baby. I feel a lot more ‘with it’ this time around, considering how much pain I was in giving birth!
Congratulations! I agree with this completely, had my second three weeks ago.
First time, I had an epidural. It was amazing as it was 12 hours before I needed to push so I snoozed a lot and there was definitely less pain. However, I couldn't move during Labour. My recovery was long and I had a catheter in for two weeks! I couldn't walk properly for about three weeks.
Second time, I begged for an epidural but it was too late. Baby shot out about 10 mins later. Recovery has felt so much easier. I was able to play with my toddler on the floor instantly and look after myself this time rather than rely on my husband for a lot. I definitely preferred this time but I was in agony during and thought I'd die. However, the moment baby was out, I felt almost good!
If it is your first baby, I would strongly consider the epidural especially if you are induced. First labours can be very long. Good luck 