So I've been in a relationship with new man for 8 months. I discussed sorting out longer term contraception with him and said I was thinking of coil (sti checks to be done etc).
He has told me that he has fertility issues low sperm count and his son was conceived via ivf. He said he feels bad that I should go through having the coil when he thinks its unnecessary.
I'm a bit confused, i would think there is still a chance I could get pregnant? Even if very remote?
Has anyone experience of this?
Fyi we are both in out 40s and a baby was not in my plans (already have a child).
(Thank you but please I dont want comments around him having a vasectomy as he was very down about the whole situation and I want to be responsible about this for myself. )