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Advice please ?

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Mummy120494 · 29/06/2020 17:42

Hi so me and my partner have a beautiful little boy who is nearly 7 months old , unfortunately during the corona virus pandemic we have both been out of work and needless to say have been getting under each other a bit . So a few months back we had a terrible falling out and unfortunately our son had to witness the whole thing. He was drunk and it did get slightly out of hand only verbally not physically . So In a result in what happened social services are now involved as I rang the police to have him removed , and as a "safe guard " they have told us that we can't be alone together whilst our son is in our care. It's now been over 2 months since them saying this and my partner and I are now completely fine and he's actually got the help with his drinking and has completely stopped . What I'm basically wanting is if anyone has been in a similar situation, my best interests are obviously my son he willl always come first in any situation and if I thought he was in any danger of any kind being around his father I wouldn't let him see him full stop . But I no his father would never dream of hurting his son or even me for that matter if I was to go against what they are asking me which is for us to all be together as a family again would they be able to use that against me or take my son away from me ? Or is that the very last resort. It just seems like it's never going to end and they never contact me to tell me how long they plan on doing this for I've just had enough and want them
Off our backs now !

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rwalker · 29/06/2020 19:06

In the interest of everyone they have to follow it up there will be a point where you will be left alone but not after couple of months

Mummy120494 · 29/06/2020 20:49

I get that but telling me that we're not allowed to be together with our son without supervision ? It's a bit extreme isn't it?

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