My husband is a gambling addict. He does go to meetings but has relapsed twice in one month recently.
I have a neuropathic condition that causes me fatigue and pain. Have just been referred to a specialist as they think I may have MS. I do struggle day to day with pain and spend a lot of time in bed. I do a physical job however and regularly work 10-15hr days.
Found out I am 4wks pregnant. We don't know what to do. Timing is awful but we understand there is never a perfect time.. but our finances are thin due to husbands recent slip up. My body is going through hell and the headaches/fatigue are debilitating some days. I do not have any trust in my husband now although I do understand that takes time to get back, but I have told him his habit has changed him into a very selfish and angry person. Some days the sweet gentle man is there but it is like he has been taken over by this person I do not recognise some days.
We have booked a provisional appointment for a termination as this is time sensitive and I will not have a surgical one. I would rather go through with the pregnancy. However I like my life how it is at the moment and a child would complicate matters for us both. On the other hand it may make my husband grow up and I would absolutely love to have a baby in my arms at some point in my life and be one a family. I want that so much. Just not sure I'm 'ready yet or that We are ready..
Can someone please give their advice on this? Just want to hear a third persons opinion.