Oh my god I could cry.
I have been working with my doctor and others at the family planning clinic to understand what's wrong with me...
I am happy I think I now know but furious that I or any of the medics did not think of it too. I take half the blame.
I am not a mum and have no plans to be so have been on cerelle/cerezette and now feanolla, all 75md desogestrel mini pill brand names.
Anyhow I have been experiencing dryness pain and absolute loss of libido for 4 or 5 years now, and it was destroying my intimacy with my husband. I thought it was stress, anxiety, depression and have had lidocaine, for the nerve pain, beta blockers and anti depressants and was tested for thyroid function, peri menopause, folical stimulant tests, vagisimus, all the std's on the planet and was just about to embark on some private psychosexual counselling, and get another referral back to a gynaecologist - when I decided to research my new pill feanolla...
Yes they changed brands AGAIN I moaned. Obviously having taken the pill for over 1500 days now I don't regularly read the contraindications - so my interest was sparked at no.4 on the list - loss of libido... So I went to Dr Google.... This is a real this - loads of people have reported their sex drive shrinks to nothing, omg!
I am delighted that I think I have got to the root cause. I'm not broken, mentally, emotionally or physically, though the pain might be a lack of lube, tension associated with not feeling horny...etc - But why oh why did I (and no one else) just think about advising me to come off the pill.
I write this as a word of caution, especially to new mums your emotions will be all over the place and you will be tired and no doubt sex will be low on the list - whilst I didn't have any challenges with using this bc method, in fact I haven't had a bleed for 6 years - (I had horrific periods before) which is amazing BUT it has damn near cost me my mental health and my relationship. Proceed with caution.