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Piano lessons at 5

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Oakvales · 31/01/2026 23:12

I've booked for my 5 yo to start piano lessons (30 mins) with a teacher that comes to the house, I have bought him a decent digital piano /keyboard to learn on/play with.

The teacher is used to teaching young children and children with parents , but afrer reading a few old threads on here, I'm wondering if he's a bit young ?

I'm not bothered about exams etc , I just want him to enjoy it and learn some basics , the teacher can do other instruments as well. His Dad and I are not musicial in the slightest, so I want go give him the opportunity to be, but mainly i want him to enjoy it , the teacher knows this and maybe he'll take to it straight away or maybe they will start taking it more serious in a year or so both fine.

His school do music lessons after school but the groups are huge. Me and his Dad both work in quite high pressured jobs and have a one year old , so someone coming to us works well. In this case do you think its still to young? As I say I have no expectations other than him being with someone who can give him more than we can with instruments.

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SkaneTos · 16/02/2026 13:34

Tarkadaaaahling · 08/02/2026 20:22

It's absolute nonsense that the hands are too small before age 7/8. I've got a child with very small hands for their age who started at 4.5 years with no issues at all. The first year or two they only do simple pieces with notes close together anyway. Mine had passed grade 1 by age 7.

I just wrote that some people says that, not that I think so.

I don't know anything about the piano grades, I am not from the UK.

Congratulations to your child, and to you, for their piano accomplishments! It really is a marvelous instrument, and it brings so much happiness.

Bunnycat101 · 16/02/2026 20:41

Both of mine started at 5 in year 1. For one it was too early and the other one fine. Consistent practice is the key an at that age that is just as much a job for you as it is for them. Unless you have a very good player, I reckon they do make slightly quicker progress when they’re a bit bigger but if they enjoy it and you’re happy to pay then go for it.

mrssunshinexxx · 16/02/2026 21:07

My daughter plays at school in a private lesson she’s nearly 6, she’s done a performance at school but it was a choice and she wanted to it was great for her confidence and it was beautiful as her mum to watch . I wish I knew how to play an instrument. She’ll continue aslong as she wants to

Pandadream · 04/03/2026 00:11

It’s never too early to start, the only thing I’d say is the effectiveness of learning. I can play piano to an intermediate level and was an eager mum. I wanted to start my son who enjoys music very much and shows some talent from young to start early. However due to the price, I delayed and now he’s 6.5 years, after failing to find a reasonable priced teacher with availability, I had a go to teach him myself. I have to say he grasped the concept pretty quick and was easy to teach by following a book. In the meantime, my 4.5 years daughter also was intrigued, so I was trying to teach her but it was very difficult, her comprehension and attention span just isn’t quite there yet. Nonetheless she enjoyed things I teacher without pressure.

if money isn’t a concern, I’d give it a go. And after a couple of months and ask your son if he enjoys it. If not, then stop and probably pick it up again later. Or change to something else.

i also had my son learn ukulele for a bit, it was harder for him and i think the teacher was not ideal. Although I think he still did pretty well, he was relieved when I said to him if he wishes to stop. He can.

Good luck. Never hurt to give a try, without pressure.

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