Hey, new here and first post! I am a man BTW but, thought there wouldn't be a better place to share experiences on this subject with fellow parents!
My daughter is 10 and has been swimming since birth(she was born in the birthing pool ;)
She is a very competent swimmer - she can do 1000m fairly easily and turn off the wall(I can't). She still has lessons once a week but, has really outgrown those. For the past year or so we had been going to lane swimming without being queried.. She swims better than the majority of adults and we always go in the slow lane. However, we got told that the policy has now changed and she must be over 16 years old to join the swim for fitness. :( This is something we used to enjoy together and there doesn't seem to be any other options in the area(Swindon).
I have checked a dozen swimming pools and none cater for this age range beyond 4pm or at weekends. All the swimming pools are owned by Better and they all have the same type of timetable! I just think it's crazy that we can't find somewhere to swim midweek together between 5-7pm. This was great for her fitness and enjoyed more freedom of it not being a lesson.
I did ask her if she wanted to join a club but, she is against that idea. Is anyone else in the same position? It's such a shame that we can only go swimming at the weekend but, this is when the pool is crowded and it is harder to get some proper swimming in! I guess other than that I should be pushing her into the club route.
Sorry about the venting!