DD is working towards grade 8 oboe & before this week has only once been asked to play Cor & she refused. Is she perfectly right to continue to stand her ground & refuse? School tend to push it on her when they need a player without warning & make her use whichever dodgy 2nd hand reed is in the case. It upsets her (if she knew beforehand she would at least make sure she has her own reed) & me to be honest! Any advice? TIA x