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Guiders Staff Room Part 2

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Groovee · 30/09/2015 12:56

http://www.mumsnet.com/Talk/extracurricularr_activities/715087-Guiders-39-staff-room-tea-wine-chat-and-optional-dancing

Part one above, new thread for when required x

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RueDeWakening · 18/07/2016 17:32

As long as the kids are ok with balloons, yes - have fun!

RiaOverTheRainbow · 18/07/2016 17:43

If you have a facebook group or similar for parents maybe make a post suggesting anyone driving brings a towel when they come to collect?

Groovee · 18/07/2016 20:10

Grr when parents decide to make a complaint without finding out the other side of the story.

Good luck to all those finishing.

I bumped into one of my brownies at Flamingo Land last week. All I heard was "Snowy Owl"

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AlbusPercival · 18/07/2016 20:42

We went with it. It was fun, it was mostly me getting wet from balloons thrown by girls.

drspouse · 18/07/2016 22:21

We had a Soak the Leader once which the girls loved, it was warm and I'd taken a spare top so I quite liked it too!

drspouse · 18/07/2016 22:23

Oh and this complaint is mainly "leader told my child to do something so I shouted at her and she [i.e. me] laughed. It was a bit ridiculous having a grown woman tell me "don't you ever...". I'm not 5!

drspouse · 19/07/2016 09:36

Hmmm we are composing our replies to this complaint. I'm wondering how I can get in the phrase "perhaps Guiding is not right for this girl at this time" or ever.
The sad part is there's another girl involved (some parts the original girl knows nothing about and it's easy to guess who else has been contributing) but the other girl is a lovely Guide, very committed, but her mum is BFF with the original mum.

Groovee · 19/07/2016 11:01

Goodness me some parents never seem to leave the playground!

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rivierliedje · 19/07/2016 13:21

That sounds quite a complicated situation drspouse.

Does anyone know if badges are still given for camp licenses (for leaders) and LQ? I've done mine and received certificates and was quite looking forward to badges. I feel a bit silly asking for a badge that may not exist though.

drspouse · 19/07/2016 14:42

Yes they are river. Not silly to ask!

Yes it is all very playground. Sadly it's putting off one of our newer leaders and even one more experienced one from continuing.

drspouse · 20/07/2016 14:19

Still mulling over this. Sleeping quite badly...

bombayflambe · 20/07/2016 15:22

If it's really getting to you then it's time to hand it off to District Comm. Arrange a meeting or telecon where you can verbally respond and she can make notes and deal with it. Also let her offer the girl(s) space elsewhere if the relationship has broken down. It does sound as if you would all be happier if this particular parent did not return to your unit.
The DC doesn't have the same emotional investment that you all do so will be able to handle it dispassionately.

drspouse · 20/07/2016 16:09

I think once we have replied the Commissioner will take over - they've more or less said as much.
No way is she coming back, sorry! But we doubted she was going to anyway.

lucysmam · 21/07/2016 11:05

Just balanced the accounts, I'm 1p short Confused

Started sorting the cupboard into proper plastic storage yesterday. Brought home so much recycling and rubbish it's unreal!

I want some cutlery caddy things to sort the pens/pencils etc into for on our tables so hunting for those as cheaply as possible tomorrow.

Need to set up an account for the Guides although have had only one enquiry so far & she can't make the first week as it's her birthday!

drspouse · 21/07/2016 11:35

Just leave the 1p. Nobody will care.

We have an account for R/B/G but our previous DC told us not to but I ignored her. I think really you are supposed to have separate accounts though.

lucysmam · 21/07/2016 12:02

Yes, they'll be separate. It'd confuse me if they were both being paid into the same account.

The 1p is probably in the bottom of my handbag organiser somewhere; I put my receipts in there the other day when I went storage shopping. I don't think I've done bad since Easter tbh, there's plenty of cash towards census and we're doing all sorts of activities with the girls.

Groovee · 21/07/2016 13:15

We use boxes from idea for the pens pencils stuff. Each six gets their own set. They stack nicely in the cupboard too.

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lucysmam · 21/07/2016 13:18

I tried boxes - they're a jumbley mess and irritate the heck outa me or yes, stackable boxes would make sense.

I suppose even something like cutlery trays but with bigger sections would do so they did stack. So long as they're tidy Blush

I even folded the fabric scraps yesterday so they fit neatly in their new box Grin

Becles · 21/07/2016 23:40

Cupboard tidy is scheduled for next week. How the craft odds breed I really don't know.

lucysmam · 22/07/2016 18:38

Ah yes, the craft scraps we keep "just in case" Grin. I have numerous odds and sods in my cupboard which will probably never see the light of day again but I've left them for the mo "just in case"

lucysmam · 24/07/2016 19:27

Hmmm, new unit helper's email address is not working but was fine when we arranged for her to visit

Was trying to send her next term's plan to have a look at since she missed our planning meeting (which consists of me and my AL supervising my kids and her dgd playing on the front while we have a chat).

Bit annoying.

Traintrackmad · 25/07/2016 21:08

Hi, I've Used my name change name for this, only because one of my parents possibly uses this bit of the site and I don't want to be outed.

Do you post pictures of your girls on your personal social media (Fb) page? Do you think that it is appropriate for Guiders to do this? We have talked about it at district meetings and the general consensus was that it wasn't best practise. I've checked the guiding website and it says about having written permission. All the girls on the set of photos do have photo permission for social media in their starting brownies form, but this is mainly luck rather than her checking (I have six who can't be put on social media).(apparently she has asked the parents if it is ok, but not had a response from one) I generally let parents take photos at unit events and make them aware not to post them online, but if the Guiders start posting them I don't feel I can argue with parents about this. (Guider in question seems to find the new parents on Fb pretty much as soon as they start at brownies, (I would rather keep them at arms length, they don't need to know my personal life), so could then see that she posts photos.

She has already posted pictures in the past and begrudgingly taken them down when I told her to, but obviously hasn't taken in what I said or we wouldn't be having the discussion again.
I think my concerns are wide, I don't think it's professional or gives a good safeguarding impression, I don't want parents thinking it's ok to do this and I don't want her thinking it is acceptable and know that if I let her do it this time, she will do it again, maybe catching the wrong child in her photo and causing a big row for me to deal with the parent if they kick off (which they would have every right to do). I also don't get why she would put photos of them on her Facebook. (I trust her, but I don't know her friends or her privacy settings etc).
What do you all think?

lucysmam · 25/07/2016 21:32

I use our fb group solely to communicate with parents - reminders, updates (Queen's birthday cards & things I've brought home rather than the girls taking type things) updates on progress with the bear uniforms I'm making, odd summery pic of Bluebell (Build a Bear) for parents to show their girls.

I don't put up pics of the girls and have stated that if they want to post their own photo's that's fine but ONLY their own girls so if there are group photo's then they don't go up. And their photo's are not my responsibility.

It took me a lot of dithering about the photo thing tbh, I set the group up & don't want to be held responsible if (for eg.) someone went on hols & a photo of their Rainbow had been sold on by fb so have made it as clear as I can that that is their own lookout.

I rarely post any pics of my own girls either though. & certainly wouldn't pop Rainbows pics on my own fb for everyone to see.

traintrackmad · 25/07/2016 21:41

I have toyed with opening a Facebook page for the group for the things you describe. I am fed up of parents losing letters and texting for information, that could be posted on a Facebook page so they knew what was going on. But I wouldn't want photos on there of the girls, for all the reasons I'm sure you know.
I don't get why someone would think it is ok to post photos of the girls on their fab page, that is what I'm struggling with. (I always wonder if I'm so funny about this as I work in early years and this issue has been massive recently).

lucysmam · 25/07/2016 21:55

It is handy, I still get the odd text to double check things but most use it. & I regularly update. Even down to mundane stuff like "it's hot...bring a water bottle" and "remember sensible shoes so we can run around like loons" Grin 'cos you can guarantee if one stops for a drink they all want one and someone would end up losing a flip flop kicking it into the rafters knowing my luck.

Only one parent has posted one photo tbf.

I disagree with pics going on personal fb pages though - my dd is in my unit atm but if there were other Rainbows in a picture with her then it wouldn't go up. Same as I wouldn't post any taken at school (assemblies where they get awards I try and get one of the certificate or whatever being handed over to show their dad) because the rest of the kids aren't mine to post.

Is it worth a reminder that they really shouldn't be up for public viewing? See what sort of response you get? Or ask DC to have a word about it being inappropriate?

Sorry...epic posts there Blush

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