I wonder if there is anyone in the know about musical matters who could advise me ... ?
My DS who is 11 has recently been entered for a ABRSM grade 2 guitar exam. DS is solid on his pieces, scales, sight reading and identifying changes in rhythm and melody. However, subsequent to entering DS for the test, the guitar teacher has discovered DS cannot sing back a melody. I could have told him that DS is not a confident singer but had no idea it was relevant. DS has only done ABRSM Music Medal tests so far which do not involve this element.
The teacher is now suggesting a few extra lessons from him to address this deficit before the test in a few weeks time. However, DS tells me that the teacher seems to have no understanding of people who find singing in tune difficult and his 'help' involves blaring at DS 'Get your voice in tune!' So I am a little sceptical as to whether his 'help' in this area will be very helpful.
I should add perhaps that DS plays the guitar with real feeling - at least he sounds good to his fond mother's untutored ear! He enjoys playing and his teacher says his playing is excellent and he has lots of potential.
Nobody in our household can sing in tune so we can't help DS. So what would you do? Agree to the extra lessons (and expense)? Ask the guitar teacher if he can arrange a couple of sessions with a vocal coach plus piano? ( The teacher is affiliated with DS's school's music department.) Kiss the singing marks bye bye and hope the actual guitar stuff is good enough for a pass? Cancel the exam? Forget about ABRSM exams altogether?
How realistic is it to hope that a bad singer might improve in a matter of weeks?
The last option - giving up on ABRSM exams - might preclude DS from taking a fuller part in the musical community at his school. For example, a certain grade level is required for taking part in ensembles. DS's teacher had been planning to put him in one of the school's guitar ensembles next year.
DS likes the teacher and his guitar playing has certainly blossomed with him but I think the man probably popped out the womb singing tunefully and cannot imagine not being able to hold a tune.
Any thoughts or advice gratefully received!