My youngest has just got a merit in his G1, he is gutted that it's not a distinction. This is due to him being a) a perfectionist and b) his teacher says he's very good, so his expectations were high.
Not knowing about music exams I presume a merit is good, and that on forums and the like the fact it's distinctions that are mentioned, is disproportionately high, just due to the fact that's more what someone is going to come and post about.
Is that a correct assumption to make?