Not children in this case, but me, but I figured lots of music parents here might have experience helping their children prepare (or know how their teacher does it). I started lessons in a new instrument. I did music lessons as a child but not exams. I'm thinking of going on an trying ABSRM grade 4 or 5 now (I did grade 2) but I'm finding the aural tests impossible. I know I could not do exams, or do a different board but I'd quite like to get the hang of it if I can. It's not all the aural tests, but specifically the first one, singing a melody from memory. I just can't remember it! I'll get bits but not all, or I'll remember a pattern in part of it but start it on the wrong note, or I can tell that what I'm singing is wrong but it'll take me time to fix it and get to the note that I recognise is right, somehow, and then I've lost the rhythm and/or forgotten the rest. It doesn't help that I absolutely hate to sing/hum aloud with anyone hearing me, either, so my nerves get in the way too.
I have both of the ABSRM practise/test books and the CDs, but I'll need an awful lot more examples than that, especially some that are a bit more graduated with what you have to do (I have the grade 3 book, but it's a somewhat different test). I need some kind of program that actually teaches, not just provides loads of examples that I simply can't do.
Any software, online programmes, other books, CDs, exercises, anything that you'd recommend??