Bcf the ultimate problem with benefits and single mothers is currently the cost of housing (and who is entitled to council housing) means that some single mothers without jobs - if they are receiving child maintenance - have more disposable income than those in privately rented or owned accommodation working full time. This is leading to a sense of unfairness.
I do know two mothers in this situation. One has 5 kids including a disabled daughter. She isnt yet on universal credit and shes going to have one hell of a shock when she does. The other one is on universal credit and does ok because of the child maintenance she gets. Without it she would struggle financially. Neither is particularly good with managing their money though and i slightly despair of their priorities.
The pair of them dont help the situation. One feels massively insecure living in an affluent area, so felt the need to throw the biggest birthday party in the entire year for her daughter to demonstrate she can keep up with the Jones. Both subscribe to the 'lets have a mountain of presents' for Christmas mentality too.
Ultimately my friendship with them went down the pan for a number of reasons but not least of because of how much they were eating out during the week when the kids were at school. I simply couldn't afford to keep up with them! Nor could my waistline.
Personally i do think its good for the area to have a mix of council housing and tenants for better social cohesion but there is very much a tension going on. Most other households here are professional middle class homeowners on two incomes as thats the only way to afford a home here.
Its a fine line and i very much appreciate that one would be screwed if her ex lost his job and the other is guaranteed a shock. Both could do with educating in financial management and responsibility because they take the attitude that they are the states responsibility whereas for everyone else here there is effectively no longer the safety net of a council house if they fall on hard times.
In terms of economic security, covid-19 has had an effective on different groups of people in very different ways. Some people who previously were more economically insecure have been a lot more comfortable and secure than others who 6 months ago would have been thought of as very secure. Those in council homes here have, ironically, been much more cushioned because theyve a guaranteed income and home in a way that a household with two professionals hasnt necessarily been. Further down the line, i fear there is going to be fall out for that situation which wont be pleasant.
I know that some around here would be happy to 'socially cleanse' the area and move them out of the area to a much cheaper area so that the housing can be sold off by the council for profit and 'problem families' and anti social behaviour can be 'dealt with'.
I think the situation is deeply complex and comes back to the high cost of housing rather than the benefits system itself.
I do understand why the tension exists and tbh i do think there is a problem, but i dont think its the one that people think it is.
I do think we are in danger of going the same way as Brazil with affluent areas walled off with private security to keep out the undesirables in the uk slums.