v belated pmk'ing, (signing in as sometime-StripeyChina)
My two kids with ASD are finding all the uncertainty hard.
My exH was crowing about being an 'essential worker' - he's a bus driver in Edinburgh, whilst I am 'not essential in any way' (he's a git)
I am a single parent Carer to my two kids with DLA and am myself disabled. I will be interested to see whether 'Society's' attitudes to those who are not 'economically productive units' changes, either temporarily or permanently (even a little bit) as more of us experience uncertainty and poverty. I wouldnt wish it on anyone, but i hope that it might make us all a little less 'othering' of folk in different positions?
There are some spectacularly good things being done - the registering of so many 'NHS Helpers' as well as lots of ordinary folk like me who cannot perform essential work (though its essential to my kids, and if i didn't then 'society' would have to pay another Carer) but are still quietly helping their neighbours where they can whilst keeping to the current Social Distancing Rules, & shopping modestly.
I note exH was somewhat grumpy to find this morning that he will become a 'retained' worker from Monday. He was crowing that he was glad he'd voted for Boris and Brexit as he will still get 80% of his pay. I am surprised and glad that the Govt is propping up wages (and s/e earnings by now, hopefully?) but I am concerned how long they will do this for? I dont think exH will learn compassion, anyway.
Sorry for somewhat personal input, will read back as far as poss