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Ethical dilemmas

Elderly dog

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SouthMumof2 · 31/03/2026 19:14

Our last remaining family dog is now just 14, she is doing ok but can see she is really slowing down now and I don’t think she has long left. The reason for my post I suppose is that whilst we will all be absolutely devastated when she’s gone as she is very much a well loved and spoiled dog, I can’t help but look forward to the freedom it will bring. We both work FT (although shift work) so she’s not left alone for long. But we both have to cut hours sometimes to make sure one of us is home from work. We can’t have long days out. Always on a timer to be back within 3/4 hours max. We can’t take her on long walks and she doesn’t enjoy going into pubs or anything (she likes her soft sofa and doesn’t like hard floors) when dog free we can be more spontaneous with holidays, weekends away and even just long days out of the house. I just mixed feelings about it all really.. will be so sad but also a new chapter in our lives being dog free… anyone else experienced similar feelings & experience? For context I’ve had dogs for 20 years so will be a huge change.

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Dearg · 31/03/2026 19:22

I well understand your feelings Op, I think it’s quite common. Dogs are a real tie, everything you do has to take them into account.

For reference, I had two and lost one last year. He was my heart and I miss him every day. But having one, a bitch, who is smaller and easy to care for, is very noticeable. I can take her to meet friends for coffee- two took up too much room. I have more stability on the ice.

The fact is, certain aspects of life are easier without a dog, no matter how loved. You are not unreasonable to be aware of that.

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