This is possibly more of an etiquette dilemma rather than an ethical dilemma.
I joined a walking group - it’s requested to pay some money to go towards helping the organisers, which is fine by me - before joining/paying I asked specifically if there were walkers in my area as I don’t drive and was told there’s tons.
There’s not “tons”. There’s one person who doesn’t go all that often. So I paid but never joined any walks because I can’t access them.
Then this week the person who started the group sent everyone forms to sign along with walking kits expected, etc. This is a big change from the “casual” walking group initially advertised. I’m starting to think he’s trying to create a business (which is fine) in a roundabout way.
I don’t want to join an organised group as I intended for something casual - is it bad form to ask for my money back as I haven’t actually joined any walks and exit the group?