What would you do if your partners dad is cheating and you're the only one (I'm assuming) who knows. I don't want to get involved but is it wrong to withhold this information? Should I tell my partner? Should I tell his mum? Should I mention to his dad how I know. I don't know what to do. It's heartbreaking.
Ethical dilemmas
Lemonfoxtrot · 14/07/2023 19:30
It pains me to say this, but I’d say nothing.
People have a habit of shooting the messenger. If you tell the MIL, she may resent you. She may even already know. likewise your partner.
If you confront PIL and it later comes out that you knew, you will not be popular with anyone.
what is your partner’s relationship like with his dad ( and his mum) ?
helloelsie · 14/07/2023 19:25
This isn't something you can keep from your partner. Tell them first and decide what to do next together. Sorry you're in this situation, it can't be easy.
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