Help!

[LadyWindsor23]

Hi,

Would appreciate some help with my dilemma. I am currently using my mums old phone while I am waiting for my new phone to be delivered. I know I shouldn’t but had a look at her notes section as somethings had not been deleted. I found some Notes from 2021 regarding her and her husband (not my father) it contained some horrible reading including him keeping numbers of sex workers including their prices. Him having Numerous email accounts where he is messaging men and women. An other bits and pieces. My mum has never mentioned this to me. We are very close but I know she would not mention this to me as she knows I would not want a relationship with her husband.

so I suppose I am saying would you bring this up with her? Should I forget it? I can’t stop thinking about it and what she has gone through maybe on here own?!

I know I should not have read these notes and now I can’t unread them 😣

thank you x

[Gazelda]

No I don't think you should bring it up with her. She might see it as you intruding and breaking her trust.

Keep being a good daughter to her. Give her your time and your ear. In time, she might confide.

Or she might already be confusing in someone else eg a professional.

You won't be able to forget what your read. But try not to let it show when you see your mums husband. The last thing you want us to give her more worry.

[LadyWindsor23]

Thank you @Gazelda ❤I just really hope she is confiding in someone. I just hate to think that she is alone in this.