Should I tell his wife?

[Chaplins]

I met a guy a couple of months ago on a weekend away. He told me he was separated etc and we have 3 fantastic days together. I then found out he was in fact married. But we continued to communicate after and he came to my house and didn’t the night/sday with me.
I really like this guy we have a connection like I’ve never felt before. He likes to be in charge tho and because I messaged him first he’s called it off.
I’m annoyed by this. Should I tell his wife what kind of man she’s married to? Would you rather know if it was you?

No do t tell her. You’re not telling her for her sake, you’re telling her because you’ve been rejected.

He’s a waste of time, you don’t need him in your life and you certainly don’t need the drama that getting involved in his marriage will cause.

It's really none of your business, is it? So he's flaky, that's sad for her but you probably aren't the first. Maybe she knows what he's like. Just walk away and be thankful it's someone else's problem and you've got out of it relatively unhurt.

She probably already suspects what an arsehole he is. Stay away and don't add to the problem.

You can hardly take the moral ground when you were quite happy to carry on communicating with him after you found out he was married.

If you’d found out he was married then stayed away perhaps. But not based the fact you went back for more, because let’s face it you didn’t give a shit then did you?

I would want to know if I was the wife.