I'm in in a bit of a dilemma and need some help please and I know you ladies (and gentlemen) can offer your wisdom.
I am 28 have 2 dd's (7/4) and a week today found out I'm pregnant with my third, I'm around 7 weeks, my partner of 6 years and the father of my 2nd dd (although he's been there since my 1st dd was 1 and her biological father has never been on the scene) has totally flipped out.
That day he smashed my bathroom door then packed his bag and went to his mothers, I didn't hear from him for 2 days and now all I'm getting is I have to have an abortion or he won't have anything to do with any of us, hes going to get a new gf asap, he's apparently going to move to China if I continue with the pregnancy and even told my little sister (who knows about the preganacy) that I forced him to have sex with me? 
I've had one termination before which I was coerced into by my ex and his mother and Ive never got over it, I know I can't do it again and tbh I don't want to.
He's saying I've done it to trap him even though he knew i had had my implant taken out (due to a small cyst forming) and he refused to wear anything, although I didn't mind but if he was so against a baby I can't understand why. A few weeks ago we were talking about getting married and how he wanted to try for as many as it took to get a son!
Anyway I'm just terrified of what to do now, we moved to a new area not long ago i have no local friends i dont drive and worse still my mum passed away 2 years ago and the only family I have is my little sister who's only 22. I hate having to use her as emotional support as I feel I'm supposed to be the one who's meant to look after her now mums gone. I'd have to give up work and go on benefits and I'd probably have to move if he keeps true to his word as I couldn't afford this place on my own. I don't see these as reasons to terminate, it's just making me panic. I'm being short with my two girls because of it and i just feel awful. My eldest wrote me a letter at school this week which just said mummy please stop crying at night, it broke my heart.
I also feel like even if he does come round ill feel bitter towards him anyway for the crap he's said, it feels like a lose lose situation for me.
His mum knows too, I even sent her a picture of my door, but he's an only child and she will jump through every hoop he puts up but he's almost 30 for God's sake. I personally think her always letting him have his way is the reason he acts like this when he doesnt! She actually told me to think about what's best for the family as 'people move on quickly' 
How can she not care her precious son wants to abandon her own grandaughter(s) because he didn't to take care of his own fertility?!?!
My head is just spinning and luckily I've had work to concentrate on but sitting here in the evenings all alone just gives me too much time with my own thoughts, has anyone else been in my situation. What happened? What can I do about work and my home and just help in general? Does anyone have 3 all alone how do you cope?
Sorry this is so long, can anyone help me?
Thanks everyone x