Earlier this year both my elderly parents died one month after one another.
Without writing pages of explanation, it is simpler to say my parents were very dysfunctional, especially my Mother who was pretty narcissistic and vindictive all her life.
Anyhow, there are no uncles, aunts , cousins etc both parents were only children. My only direct family relative is a younger sister who is married with one son. She was the golden child and has always made it her life’s work to exclude me and my family from anything to do with my parents. This of course suited my mother very well and so all my life there has been this weary and frankly hurtful situation of me trying to fit in when allowed and being openly snubbed or sniped at.
Stupidly or misguidedly? I continued contact , to visit/assist etc etc as my parents got older and more needy. I sorted out care, extra benefits etc., while my sister seemingly remained incapable or disinterested in trying to do anything practical. I lived some distance so travelled over 100 miles a week. She lives 12miles
She never had any contact with me nor still. She refuses to speak or acknowledge my existence to hospitals, GP, services etc. She and her husband behaved appallingly to me during my parents life , during their death and afterwards.
Both are the executors of my late parents will. My mother died after my father, so I would guess my sister and she would have enough time to alter the will to finally cut me out, but I don’t know. Absolutely everything has been withheld from me. Like I never existed at all apart from an odd open postcard Informing our house ( she never even put my name on the address ) to collect some personal possessions that are in boxes in the garage of my parents house ( except she does say our parents, just their Christian names ) weird. I think she too is not that mentally stable.
I am feeling very upset and angry. Am I just being too sensitive ?
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