In August of 2016 I had an abortion. It was not something that I wanted to do as I already had one child at the young age of 16 and felt that if I could cope at that age I would be able to cope now as I'm much older and wiser and was in a much better situation but my then partner pressured and manipulated me into having one. Then he just disappeared off the face of the earth. I was devastated and realized I had been played. He stuck around to make sure I went through with it then I find out a couple of months later he's back with his ex who caused so much drama during our relationship I am glad to be shot of him but I recently found out from a kind of mutual friend my ex is back on Facebook and I'm wondering if I should send him a message, not to be nasty or to try and win him back but just to let him know what he caused when he left but also to say that I don't hold it against him? I'm not sure if it would give me "closure". There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of that baby and I really need something to help me close that chapter of my life because I'm really starting to drown in my self-loathing for being naive and not doing what I wanted for myself. I would really appreciate any advice, thank you.