Can I text neighbours and say about mum's birthday?

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My mum is about half an hour away. I can't see her on her 90th birthday which is this Monday. Mum has dementia - not too bad yet, and a heart condition. I feel sad that she may not hear from many people on Monday other than her carers.

I am in regular contact with the couple below her - fit and well in their late 60s/.early 70's I expect.. Whenever there is an issue with tradespeople coming in etc, they will let them in, do things such as this for my mum..

Also there are 2 ladies of the same age, one of whom my mum used to love chatting with when she was more mobile..

I don't know if it's rude or cheeky to text any of them to say by the way my mum will be 90 on Monday.. They might want to send her a card..

What do you think ? Thanks in advance..

Thanks very much and best wishes to you too..I couldn't decide for a long time whether to tell my mum but then I thought she was going to wonder when my hair started falling out and I had no energy to do anything so I went ahead and told her. Luckily I think she does forget again in.between seeing me so it's worked out ok. Thanks again 😄

@Brandyb thanks for your post. Yes I take your point that there's no harm in mentioning these things..If they're busy they don't need to do anything at all..Still pondering 🤔