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Elderly parent about to be discharged from hospital with a fractured neck. Any questions I should ask the discharge team?

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Yellowbrixlane · 03/06/2026 21:45

Hi everyone. My Dad is in his mid 90s and is about to be discharged from hospital with a neck fracture.
Apparently he is medically fit but extremely frail, in a lot of pain and has to wear a neck brace for at least another 6 weeks. He also has a bed sore and a catheter.
He will have carers 4 times a day but apparently, isn’t eligible for a hospital bed at home. Due to the pain he’s in with his neck, he sleeps partly upright at hospital and physically can’t lay flat.
I really feel he needs a hospital
bed at home but I was told he doesn’t meet the criteria by the physio. He has no one at home who can look after him either and doesn’t meet the criteria for a stay in a residential home. Does anyone have any experience of this or know how I could get a second opinion regarding the hospital bed? A few other professionals I have spoken too have said that if suitable equipment isn’t put in place, then it will be a failed discharge.

Also, anything obvious I should ask the discharge team?

Thanks

OP posts:
JimBobsWife · 06/06/2026 09:47

Yellowbrixlane · 05/06/2026 12:54

He’s been offered a 6 week reablement package. My mum is disabled and went through something similar. Then self funded afterwards etc.
My main issue atm is trying to get a loan of a hospital bed while his neck heals and he’s in a neck brace as he physically can’t lay flat.

I’m surprised the answer hasn’t been just to prop him up with pillows.

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